I’ve learned that those with Saturn in Cancer [8th house, of course] seem to struggle with giving themselves over to someone emotionally. There’s a blockage in the expression of feelings even though the person wants to be close to someone. They are likely to have fears around the issue of emotional closeness and sexuality, and being able to give of themselves; so much that they’ll probably suffer from thwarted desire and self-sabotage. And by self-sabotage – they’ll say cruel and mean things to the person that they like, even though they still want them.
How to heal with this placement? It’s going to take a long time but loving and accepting yourself is a start, as well as building up confidence in yourself. Work on learning to trust and be vulnerable with the other person who thinks you’re amazing. Otherwise, they’ll just give up one day and leave.
Unfortunately, people with this placement won’t appreciate the person that truly liked them for who they are until they’re gone. It truly is a lonely existence.
I didn’t know what image to add to this post so here’s a meme: